Samantha Park

Add caption To some people, the first time having sex is one of the most important moments of your life, there are different reasons for different people, cultures and beliefs. For some, it’s no big deal, it’s just a first time like any other first times. Personally, I believe that it doesn’t matter if you think it’s a special moment or not, you have the right to believe what you want. What matters to me,  is if you feel ready, comfortable and that you trust the person you’re doing it with. Age doesn’t really matter, some people are comfortable at a younger age than others, as long as you feel ready to do it then I don’t see what is wrong. I honestly don’t think that anyone can decide when or who to lose it to but yourself. In the media, a lot of the time, loosing your virginity is seen as a very special moment; I’m talking about rose petals, candles, fireworks and the perfect lover. But after talking to some of people about it, I soon found out that it doesn’t always

Add caption Skin goals or body goals does not always mean having white skin and slim or eve skinny body. this creates a toxic mindset to girls of colour (especially indonesians since there are so many account that give such an useless article)  which is: "if you're not white or at least white-passing, you can't be 'goals'." and that's wrong. that's so terribly wrong. since we were very young, if you're not light-skinned, society will automatically judge you as 'ugly'. light-skinned people are worshipped like hell and people who are dark-skinned are encouraged to 'bleach' their skin (heck why there's a lot of 'whitening' products out there) and if you noticed almost all of the skin care ads product always giving you their best power WHITENING people who don't have sharp noses - out of here. people with curly hair - fuck that, we like straight hair. also, racist stereotypes. black people in indonesia are of